Wednesday, 30 March 2016

Quotes of Indian chief

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
你靠什麼謀生,我不感興趣。
I want to know what you ache for,

我想知道你渴望什麼,
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.
你是不是敢夢想你心中的渴望。
It doesn't interest me how old you are.
你幾歲,我不感興趣。
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
我想知道你是不是願意冒看起來像傻瓜的危險
for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
為了愛,為了你的夢想,為了生命的奇遇。
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.
什麼星球跟你的月亮平行,我不感興趣。
I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow,
我想知道你是不是觸摸到你憂傷的核心,
if you have been opened by life's betrayals
你是不是被生命的背叛開敞了心胸,
or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!
又或者變得枯萎與封閉,因為怕更多的傷痛!
I want to know if you can sit with pain,
我想知道你是否能與痛苦同坐,
mine or your own,
不管是你的或是我的,
without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.
而不想去隱藏它、淡忘它,或撫平它。
I want to know if you can be with joy,
我想知道你是不是能跟喜悅共處,
mine or your own,
不管是你的或是我的,
if you can dance with wildness
你是不是能跟狂野共舞,
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
讓激情充滿了你的指尖到趾間,
without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
而不是警告我們要小心,要實際,要記得做為人的侷限。
It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.
你跟我說的故事是否真實,我不感興趣。
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself;
我想要知道你是否能夠為了對自己真誠而不在乎可能會讓其他人失望;
if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul;
你是不是能忍受背叛的指控,而不背叛自己的靈魂;
if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
以及你是不是能夠忠實而足以信賴。
I want to know if you can see beauty
我想知道你是不是能看到美麗,
even when it's not pretty, every day,
即使不是每天都這樣美麗,
and if you can source your own life from its presence.
你是不是能從生命的呈現裡溯源到生命的源頭。
I want to know if you can live with failure,
我想要知道你是不是能跟失敗共存,
yours and mine,
不管是你的還是我的,
and still stand on the edge of the lake
而還能站在湖畔,
and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”
對著那銀色滿月吶喊著 「是!」
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.
我對於你住在哪裡,擁有多少錢並不感興趣。
I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair,
我想知道在經過了整夜的哀傷沮喪,你還能夠站起來,
weary and bruised to the bone,
即使身心疲憊到了極點,
and do what needs to be done to feed the children.
為了孩子們,盡養家活口的責任。
It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here.
我對你認識誰,或如何來到這裡並不感興趣。
I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.
我想知道你是否會和我一起站在火堆中央而不寒顫退縮。
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
我不感興趣你曾在哪裡學習,學過些什麼,向誰學習過。
I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.
我想要知道,當所有的一切都消逝時,是什麼在你的內心支撐著你。
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself
我想要知道你是不是能和自己單獨相處,
and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
當在空虛的時刻裡,你是不是真的喜歡做自己的伴侶。

Tuesday, 29 March 2016

nothing on you


If i told i was perfect i'd be lying
If there's something i'm not doing, girl i'm trying
I know I’m no angel, but I’m not so bad (no no no)
If you see me at the party conversating
That doesn’t mean telephone numbers are exchanging
I know I’m no angel, but I’m not so bad.

(unforgettable lyrics that motivated me.)

Sharing is Caring- Apam Gula Hangus


the recipe of desserts that I shared for today is Apam Gula Hangus that take at least one hours to complete all and it is easy and didn't complicated. So it is convenient for those who lack of time.

Monday, 28 March 2016

Oops


Some things we need to think a lot of times will understand, some things are not our fault, but we always mistaken that this is ourselves wrong . If we think that the mistakes happened due to ourselves only is the most stupid, because there is often the cause of the mistake, the mistake will have reason, and the mistake will not be one-sided.
有些东西我们需要想很多次才会明白,有些事并不是我们的错,但是我们偏要把错往自己身上扛才会一直过意不去。如果我们觉得只有我们自己造成错误是最傻的,因为错误往往是有起因的,错误不会无缘无故就会产生,而且错误不会只是单方面。

Friday, 25 March 2016

Impression and burden




If not both of the parties  have a good impression on each other, then  the unilateral love for us is a kind of anxieties and burdens for them.

Thursday, 24 March 2016

Let it be


We often want to control our own people and things so that they can reach us required or desired level. But the reality is often unsatisfactory, so look on and let go can make our lives happier. Learning new skills can we get to enjoy the physical and spiritual.We are afraid of losing because we doubt our own abilities of earning money and we lack of social status.

我们常常想要控制我们所拥有的人事物让他们可以达到我们所要求或所想要的水准。但是现实往往是不尽人意的,所以看开和放开可以让我们的生活更快乐。学习新技能可以让我们得到物质上和心灵上的享受。我们会害怕失去是因为我们怀疑自己的能力和我们对自己身份地位的不足而感到羞愧。

Wednesday, 23 March 2016

时间磨平了菱角

很喜欢这句话
”一些人不甘寂寞, 总要找个人来做伴, 就是没有感情也没有关係, 结果等到自己真正喜欢的人出现时, 不知所措, 最后伤害了自己也伤透了别人的心。
一个耐得住寂寞的人, 才可能真诚地生活, 因为真诚的人不凑热闹、不赶时髦、不追风潮, 可以诚诚实实坦坦荡荡地生活!“
我们经常在真正出现感情和了解对方后被迫结束,选择放弃的人可曾想过一路以来所经历的风雨到后来就那么简单的轻言放弃,没有所谓适合对方的伴侣,这只不过需要时间来磨合,时间可以磨平菱角,让不适合的伴侣可以真正去接纳对方。

Tuesday, 22 March 2016

Red Velvet



Red Velvet
I have experienced to bake cake and for myself and other in this semester. This is an good experience for me because actually I want to try to bake cake for a long time but still lack of time and opportunity for me. However, my college give me this opportunity to try and learn new thing at my last semester.

Monday, 21 March 2016

Feeling



Some people will fall in love with someone due to the feeling, some people will fall in love by the first sight and some people will fall in love  because  they came to have a tender feeling for each other after a period of time. Most of people hope that their future companion can same with the model of their expectation. However, when we getting older, we will find out that, this opinion is immature and unrealistic. Women's expectation of their future companion is always the rich and handsome men. Women with fair skin, rich families and good looks are the most coveted brides for men. There is a question that are we worth enough to request?

Sunday, 20 March 2016

The truth

The world's most painful is that I say the truth to you, but you have kept those words as a joke.
The world's most stupid is someone think that honesty is good, but has also led to resentment of others.
The world's most ironic is that people are talking too direct, because no one really accept the absolute truth.
The world's farthest distance is the ideas and concepts, receiving and running is the only way.
世界上最痛苦的就是我对你说真话,但你却把那些话当作笑话。
世界上最愚蠢的就是自以为诚实好,但是却引来了别人的怨恨。
世界上最讽刺的人就是太自来自往,没有人真的接受绝对真理。
世界上最遥远的距离是思想和观念,接纳和磨合是唯一的道路。

清明

接近了那个日子-清明节,这几年的清明节我都因为各种原因而无法上山去,这是个特别的日子,油然记得山上那种气氛,热闹中带了种忧伤,尤其是在低洼地区的气氛更是阴沉,因为没什么人所以自然的阴气比较重,当然不忘到摆放骨灰的神庙是每年到的地方,这里的亲朋戚友很多,所有都在我的生命中留下篇章,当然还有和我血浓于水的他。

Saturday, 19 March 2016

facebook

There are a question about friendship just can be linked online only or can be face by face. Nowaday, people usually  conduct their life in virtual world. People can be friend on social media but they didn't taking to each other by face to face even they have met each other. It is a sad fact that really happened in my life and I am disappointed with myself and those people who are my friends but act like  stranger. We aren‘t brave enough to have  good conversation with each other.

Thursday, 17 March 2016

太傻

有些人和事其实我们无须把他们看得太重,因为希望越大,所以失望越大,我们没有办法保证他们一定会跟我们一样,所以把他们看得太重,最后难过的只有自己。物以类聚,而人以群分,有人说,不适合自己的圈子不需要改变原来的自己来特意加入里头,除非那个圈子关系到你过后的生活,例如同事,上司们和顾客们的圈子就是我们必须加入的。 这就好象西装上衣无法和短裤共存一样,因为两者都是用在不同的场所的,所以想加入别人的圈子里,只有改变自己,不然就是照情况而定。

伴侣

人常说有句话叫做宁缺勿滥,好像买一件衣服一样,衣服讲究的是穿起来舒服和得体,我们不是一看到漂亮的衣服就会想要占为己有,而且这样不止我们无法了解到衣服适不适合我们,而且可能还会破坏衣服的审美观。所以很多事情我们要经过了解,并且观察适不适合我们再来行动。有难忘的经历就会让人痛定思痛,以后不可再鲁莽行动,那不但会害己,也会害到别人。切记切记。

Song

During this few months, I have heard many song included english, mandarin, korean song and so on. Every song have its melody and their lyric have provide me inspired writing and can release my tension and overcome some emotional problem. I used to hear a song single cycle to experience and understand what is the real meaning that the song want to give and every single words in lyric have own meaning and metaphor. In different stage of life, I prefer different song and these song help me understand myself and what problem that I will meet. 

Hello-Lovelorn

I didn't expect that you will come back and reunited with me but I know your life is better than before is enough for me already.
Hello, it's me, I was wondering
If after all these years you'd like to meet to go over everything
They say that time's supposed to heal, yeah
But I ain't done much healing
Hello, can you hear me?
I'm in California dreaming about who we used to be
When we were younger and free
I've forgotten how it felt before the world fell at our feet
There's such a difference between us
And a million miles
Hello from the other side
I must've called a thousand times
To tell you I'm sorry, for everything that I've done
But when I call you never seem to be home

Hello from the outside
At least I can say that I've tried
To tell you I'm sorry, for breaking your heart
But it don't matter, it clearly doesn't tear you apart anymore

Hello, how are you?
It's so typical of me to talk about myself, I'm sorry
I hope that you're well
Did you ever make it out of that town where nothing ever happened?

It's no secret
That the both of us are running out of time
So hello from the other side
I must've called a thousand times
To tell you I'm sorry, for everything that I've done
But when I call you never seem to be home
Hello from the outside
At least I can say that I've tried
To tell you I'm sorry, for breaking your heart
But it don't matter, it clearly doesn't tear you apart anymore
Hello from the other side
I must've called a thousand times
To tell you I'm sorry, for everything that I've done
But when I call you never seem to be home

Hello from the outside
At least I can say that I've tried
To tell you I'm sorry, for breaking your heart
But it don't matter, it clearly doesn't tear you apart anymore

每一首歌都会结束,每一部戏剧都会有结局,每一段关系在人世间都会有结束的时候,没有一个人能够陪我们到最后,有的人只出现在你人生中的一段时间,带给你一些回忆,就好像搭车一样,有的人半路下车了。珍惜还能共同存在的时间,让回忆都是美好的。

有時候 有時候
我會相信一切有盡頭
相聚離開 都有時候
沒有什麼會永垂不朽
可是我 有時候
寧願選擇留戀不放手
等到風景都看透
也許你會陪我 看細水長流 (摘自:红豆)

Food

Although "consumption of food" and" food preparation" only difference words, but the used time and effort have big difference , eating often only 1/10 of the time of prepare food and consumer often cannot understand manufacturer mind. Although the words men and women 're just small different , but their characteristic, attitude and behavior are different. Sometime we always think that our expectation, action and preference in positive light but other parties's action and preference are in negative light. These opinion will cause the misleading,wrong choice and judgment.

人没有所谓的完美无缺,因为人并非神一样的完美,人一定会有其缺点,就算他们是歌手或演员也有缺点,只是他们成功地让他们的优点盖过了他们的缺点。我们不能一昧地要求别人达到我们的标准来判定那个人。人们常常以视觉感官来判定一个人,或是评头论足。常常人们都有一个标准,人们总会认为比较好看或是身材标准的人一定比较出色,但是事实并非如此,马云就是一个例子,他并没有英俊的外表,他也没有像甄子丹一样的身材,难道他就不出色吗?

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